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“Just Say No” Something to think about

I recently read a Facebook posting that stated:

“Just Say No  –  To Just Say No. Poor Boomers. The big tool they handed down to their kids – one that did not ever work for them – was Nancy Reagan’s, Just say no.”  

Nancy Reagan speaking at a Just Say No anti-drug rally.I take umbrage with this advice, thinking that today in the age of fentanyl and other emerging even more powerful synthetics, and methods of distribution, her advice was unintentionally quite prophetic.  Not everyone thought of it as a corny phrase; they digested it, using it in their future thought process.   Please consider the following:

Experimentation in the Fentanyl Era: Why the Culture Must Change

There was a time—not long ago—when “experimentation” with drugs was viewed through a lens of poor judgment, peer pressure, or youthful curiosity. It was dangerous, yes. It could lead to addiction, legal trouble, or long-term consequences. But there was an underlying assumption that too often went unspoken:

Most people would survive it.

That assumption is now gone.

Today, parents are not burying children after years of addiction. They are burying them after a single mistake. A single pill. A single moment of curiosity. A decision made in seconds that leaves a permanent void in a family that will never be filled.

This is what illicit fentanyl has done. It has rewritten the rules entirely.

This Is Not the Same Risk—It Is a Different Reality

Illicit fentanyl is not just another drug added to an already dangerous landscape. It is a lethal contaminant embedded within it—silent, invisible, and unforgiving.

  • It cannot be seen.
  • It cannot be tasted.
  • It cannot be judged by experience or tolerance.

A teenager believes they are taking something familiar—something they have heard about, something others have “tried.” But what they are encountering is something entirely different: a substance so potent that a microscopic miscalculation can stop their breathing within minutes.

  • There is no learning curve.
  • There is no second chance.
  • There is no opportunity to “figure it out next time.”
  • There’s no safe way to ingest illicit fentanyl

Why “Scare Tactics” Failed—And Why Truth Must Replace Them

For decades, prevention messaging often relied on exaggeration. Students were told worst-case scenarios that didn’t always match what they saw around them. As a result, many tuned it out. The message lost credibility.

But today, the tragedy is not that we exaggerated the risk.

It’s that we didn’t accurately explain how final the risk has become!

Students are not rejecting the message because it is too strong. They are rejecting it because it has not been clearly reframed to reflect the reality they now face.

The Cultural Reset: From Experimentation to Immediate Consequence

We have successfully taught generations of young people one critical public safety principle when it comes to firearms:

  • You do not play with a gun.
  • You do not point it at yourself.
  • You do not pull the trigger to “see what happens.”

Why? Because everyone understands—at a fundamental level—that the outcome could be immediate and irreversible.

There is no debate. No nuance. No cultural acceptance of “experimentation.”

That same clarity has not yet taken hold in how we talk about drugs.  But it must, because in today’s environment, the analogy is no longer symbolic, is exact:

Taking an illicit pill today is no different than picking up a gun, without knowing if it is loaded, placing it to your head, and pulling the trigger—

“Just Say No”: More Relevant Now Than Ever

When Nancy Reagan stood before the nation and told young people to “Just Say No,” the message was widely criticized as simplistic—perhaps even naïve. At the time, critics argued that drug use was too complex for such a direct answer. But the fentanyl era has stripped away that complexity.

This is no longer a conversation about managing risk, making better choices, or avoiding long-term consequences.

This is a conversation about survival.

Green button with 'Just say no'And in that context, the phrase “Just Say No” is no longer a slogan—it is a life-preserving directive grounded in present-day reality in a way that could not have been fully understood at the time it was first introduced.

Nancy Reagan could not have envisioned a drug environment where one mistake could be immediately fatal.  But if she had, her message would not seem simplistic.

It would seem urgent!

What Students Need to Hear—Clearly and Without Dilution

Example infographic - Warning Signs of PoisoningStudents today do not need slogans. They need truth delivered with clarity ( see the VOID Fentanyl Curriculum ):

  • The rules have changed.
  • The margin for error is gone.
  • You are not experimenting—you are exposing yourself to a lethal unknown.

They must understand that what previous generations may have survived is no longer survivable under the same assumptions.

A Responsibility to Change the Culture

This is not just a messaging issue. It is a cultural one. We cannot continue to speak about drug use in terms that belonged to a different era. Doing so creates a dangerous gap between perception and reality gap that is now costing lives.  Schools, families, and communities, especially those rooted in public safety principles—have a responsibility to close that gap.

  • To speak plainly.
  • To speak truthfully.
  • And to speak with the weight that this moment demands.

The fentanyl crisis is not simply a continuation of past drug problems. It is a transformation of them.  It demands that we abandon outdated language, reject diluted messaging, and confront a difficult truth:

Experimentation is no longer experimentation. It is exposure to immediate, irreversible consequence.

And in that reality, the message becomes unavoidable:

JUST SAY NO!!

It may be the only decision that ensures you live long enough to make another one.

Steve Filson, Secretary-Treasurer  (Sergeant Retired, San Bernardino PD)

Jaime Puerta is a United States Marine Corps veteran and the Founder and CEO of Puerta & Associates, Inc., a California-based interpreting firm.

In April 2020, Jaime's 16-year-old son, Daniel, tragically lost his life after ingesting a counterfeit pill laced with illicit fentanyl that he had unknowingly purchased through Snapchat. This devastating loss compelled Jaime to take action—transforming his grief into a nationwide mission to prevent similar tragedies.

He is the Co-Founder and President of Victims of Illicit Drugs (VOID), a nonprofit organization dedicated to educating the public about the lethal dangers of counterfeit pills and advocating for stronger policies to stop fentanyl trafficking. Jaime is also the Co-Chair of Project Facing Fentanyl, the organization behind the official National Fentanyl Prevention and Awareness Day observed annually on August 21st.

In addition, Jaime serves as an Advisory Board Member to the Alliance to Counter Crime Online (A.C.C.O.), where he helps advance efforts to hold online platforms accountable for enabling drug trafficking and other criminal activities targeting youth.

Through VOID and his advocacy work, Jaime partners with families, lawmakers, and law enforcement to demand the removal of illicit drug trafficking from social media and other digital platforms. A powerful and effective public speaker, he shares Daniel's story with students, parents, educators, and policymakers to expose the deceptive nature of counterfeit pills and the urgent need for comprehensive education and prevention.

Jaime's tireless efforts aim to pass common-sense legislation, protect future generations, and bring national attention to the fentanyl crisis claiming thousands of lives each year.

Steve Filson was raised in Huntington Beach and has been a resident of San Bernardino since 1976 when he relocated there after his service in the U.S. Air Force. He retired in 2009 after a 31-year career with the San Bernardino County Sheriff and San Bernardino Police Department. Steve is the owner of a private security company and is a staff member of the Public Safety Academy, a public charter school in San Bernardino.

Most importantly, Steve is Jessica’s Dad. Jessica was his 29-year-old daughter killed in Redlands on January 22, 2022, along with her boyfriend, Nicholas, due to fentanyl poisoning. Steve lives in Highland, California, with his wife, Cheri, and their five-year-old granddaughter, Elara. He and other bereaved parents formed V.O.I.D., “Victims of Illicit Drugs,” as a California non-profit corporation and dedicate their efforts to education and awareness of this fentanyl scourge confronting our society.

Rocklin, CA resident Chris Didier lost his 17-year-old son, Zachary Didier, to fentanyl two days after Christmas in 2020. Zach was an Eagle Scout, soccer player, and beloved member of the community who had no history of drug use. Chris Didier has dedicated himself to raising awareness of the dangers of fentanyl, and has no doubt saved the lives of many students like Zach through his efforts. 

During his 22-year military career, Lt. Col. Didier flew the C-21 and F-15E. He currently flies the Boeing 787 for United Airlines.

Mathew Brodman is an accomplished senior executive with over 28 years of expertise in global homeland security leadership, strategic planning, and harnessing emerging technologies to address complex threats. A results-driven leader, Mathew has successfully managed a workforce of over 10,000 law enforcement professionals across more than 50 countries, fostering collaboration between public and private sectors. As an accredited diplomat, he has built strong and lasting relationships within the international law enforcement and intelligence communities, while driving innovative programs and initiatives.

During his tenure as Deputy Assistant Director at Homeland Security Investigations (HSI), Mathew played a key leadership role in evaluating and enhancing operational performance to address evolving transnational threats. Notably, he was instrumental in designing and implementing the Department of Homeland Security's initial counter-fentanyl strategy, demonstrating his commitment to tackling the ongoing fentanyl crisis. Beyond his professional responsibilities, Mathew remains actively involved in raising awareness about the challenges posed by fentanyl. He currently serves as an advisory board member with Voices for Awareness and Facing Fentanyl.

Throughout his career, Mathew has consistently demonstrated exceptional leadership in building alliances, fostering cross-sector collaboration, and leveraging strategic relationships to address critical security issues. His expertise spans policy implementation, crisis management, risk mitigation, and the integration of advanced technologies to strengthen security operations.